What do I like sexually, that is a question I had to ask myself. I didn't know the answer to that question. My partner seemed to become more and more frustrated when I could not give the answers he was asking. I wanted to please him and turn him on, but I did not know how or what turned me on sexually. I thought sex was just something a man enjoyed, and why was it so important to him to see me have an orgasm. I guess some men are only in to pleasing themselves, but not mine, he could not enjoy the moment, if he did not see me squirming and making sounds of enjoyment. His moment would be ruined, and would stop. To be honest it started to bother me, especially when my friends would communicate to me, you are going to lose that man, he will stray so he can feel like he is a man. I thought really, is that why men stray for the sexual desires that they can't seem to get from their spouse or girlfriends. I knew if I loved him and did not want to lose him, I was going to have to venture out a little and discover my sexual desires, I was not going to give up that easy. It took me several months of playing with some very interesting sex toys, I had to do my research to find out what were the best sex toys out there that would help me achieve an orgasm, after reading so much information on the internet and listening to my friends, I realized all women are different, and women may need to be touched in multiple areas that feel good, but we have to find our bodies sensations, so we can guide our partner to what is amazing to us. Women have more spots than one, some men immediately go straight for our clitoris, though this might be spot for some women, but not every woman. At least not for myself, I would sit there and have no feelings, and I would look at him with the look of, you do know that is not doing anything for me. The question would be in frustration, what do you like, please tell me. I did not know, he would not understand, why a woman in her late 30s still hasn't had an orgasm. Because, my previous partner never took the time to ask me what I liked or talked about what I could do to discover this, when I saw his frustrations and disappointment, and that he actually wanted to please me before his needs, I knew I would have to discover my needs myself. I started doing a lot of reading about orgasms, and all the different sex toys to help achieve the orgasms. I did not realize how many ways of having sixth multiple type of orgasms, and "oh my" the toys out there for both the men and women. I started getting a little turned on, just by reading this stuff. I was finding out I am not abnormal at all, I just had to find myself. Once, I found myself, and was able to share these experiences with the love of my life, oh he could not get enough of me. I drove him completely crazy. We continued to grow stronger and stronger, and he loved to watch me masturbate, I think that really got him going, I have to admit that part was hard for me at first, it was slightly uncomfortable to have him watch, so I had to mentally clear my mind and imagine I'm in my room by myself thinking about him, but not knowing he is physically watching me. But, the more and more I masturbated, the more comfortable I got. He and I have really grown extremely close, he is my best friends, and we can talk about both our needs and what we can do to help each other achieve mind blowing orgasms together. It has been some of the tensest sexual experiences, that I can't get enough of him either. I think every woman and man deserve to feel this as I have, and it literally takes you finding what you like and not being scared to talk to your partner to achieve this, it will definitely enhance your sex life. Never give up, you deserve to feel amazing, please stay tuned, I will be sharing the types of orgasms I experienced and the toys I just love, you will love to hear about this soon. Try some of my favorite toys:)
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